a day with some useful info

today was a good day, while i was at work a girl that i know was in and she and her husband have been trying to get pregnant for 8 yrs! It really puts me in my place 3 yrs isn't so bad it could be a lot worse. but anyways, she has done a.i about 6 times and got pregnant once and lost her baby at 7 weeks. she decided that it wasn't gonna be the route for them so they went into invetro and got pregnant with twins and lost them at like 6 months i think? already had the baby beds put together and the baby shower was that weekend. it was an awful story. so after all that happened she and her husband decided to try again and she had 3 tries left and it took her second try to get pregnant but shes about 10 weeks now. i was so happy for her. so i got to asking her about the process of invetro and how bad it really was. she said she did have to give herself shots once a day for like 2 wks but she said that the needles were tiny and that she hated shots! so for her to do it wasn't really that bad. that was good news, not looking forward to that. but she really told me a lot that i didn't know like why they want you on lupron which is an awful drug, the dr.s don't want you to have a cycle and then they give you a drug that makes you produce a lot of eggs. that's just it, how do i know how many eggs i already produce what if that's the problem? but anyways, our conversation was good and helpful to me. she gave me her dr.'s card so maybe i'll look him up. other than that not a lot of baby talk which was nice, sometimes it is what my day is filled with. i know that people are just asking cause they care. i really have some great friends that care for us. God bless them